Every gay man was a treasure in our society, so loving and sweet. They were the blessings other cultures miss. No us though. We learned how to love everyone, and that is a kind of intelligence and true morality.
Love is love, so turn that rainbow frown upside down. "Gay" means "happy," and that is your divine right. Find your soulmate, find the kind of joy that makes living true gaiety.
He was gay in both senses, happy and wonderfully queer.
I love it that "gay" also means "happy," because it reminds us that we all have a divine right to love, to be loved, to find joy upon this earth as we seek to use our talents in the service of others. A gay man should be a happy man, or at least as able to find happiness as any other.