When you meet "The One" they are as a tree in dunes of sand and your biggest fear becomes that they will leave. Before you imagined the world as an oasis but you realise you can't hallucinate that anymore. If they go, you are alone even if there are others. That's halloween and Christmas right there, that's true love, the curse and the blessing always in proportion.
At the start of time you were one, one energy source forever split into two. Each half has what the other needs. When you learn to live your authentic selves you gain the chance to be repaired. Truth is stranger than fiction, and the truth is you were never strangers.
Right now I'm paralysed by FOMU - fear of messing up. I love you and that's tough to admit to myself and to you. I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing, of doing the wrong thing, of my lack of confidence being the thing that is actually the wrong thing. I need to get over that so I can give us a chance. It's scary though, love is scary when you meet the one.
When you meet 'the one' the universe will show you the price of what you've wished for. The real deal is never cheap. You will see what is on the table and what the cost is. It is an honest system. Those who won't wait for their soulmate or take on any struggle can't have 'The One." This kind of magic is a thing you must pay for with personal struggle. You may be asked to wait for them. Your pathways may come together and separate again for months or years. Those who will pay the price of emotional pain can learn what love is... can feel the blessing of true love. So, I ask you, is your lover worth it? You chose.